Many people believe that being a likable and charismatic person just comes naturally.
And it’s very easy to fall for this misbelief since it can seem like these people have been outgoing their entire life.
But, that’s not exactly the case.
Being likable is actually a skill that almost everybody can acquire.
And to have this ability, you need to obtain certain habits to change the way you think, speak, and act. So if you’re curious about what these habits are, then definitely keep on reading!
You Will Learn About:
1. They Don’t Know Everything
We all can’t stand that person who jumps into a conversation and talks like they know everything.
But likable people don’t interrupt others and are great listeners.
They want to make people feel important and respected, so they know when to listen and when to speak.
2. They Use Positive Body Language
Likable people often impress others with their gestures and facial expressions.
Giving firm handshakes, making eye contact, smiling, and laughing when someone makes a joke are all well-known habits of charismatic people.
Essentially, you’re helping others to know that you’re happy they’re there and you like interacting with them.
3. They Don’t Force Their Opinions on Others
Likable people are patient and will give advice if someone asks for it, but they won’t make a person feel forced to follow their advice.
They’ll give that person space and allow them to make their own decisions.
4. They Focus on the Good
Sometimes it can be difficult to work with people who have different personalities.
But the best way to build strong relationships with different people is to notice the good things about them.
Likable people respect others as they are and pay attention to the good they have so they can get along.
5. They’re Trustworthy
Likable people never share people’s secrets or personal thoughts.
Even when it’s a friend or family member they know will never meet this other person. they just have too much respect for what they opened up to them about.
It’s a scary thing to be open and they know this and stay away from sharing with others.
Any kind of betrayal just isn’t allowed, and this helps them to gain the trust of those around them.
6. They’re Cheerful
We always enjoy the company of pleasant people, and likable people are comfortable to be around because they always seem to be positive and encouraging.
I mean think about it, how many times have you been around someone that was always negative? How often did you want to continue hanging out with them?
7. They Call People by Name
People tend to feel validated when someone calls them by their name. And likable people make it a point to use the person’s name every time they meet.
8. They Ask Questions
Being a good listener is crucial if you want to be respected and liked.
Likable people pay attention to the speaker and focus on what they’re saying by asking questions.
In this way, people will know you care about their opinions and appreciate your attention.
They also feel safe in knowing you’re not just waiting for them to stop talking so you can talk.
9. They Don’t Judge
Likable people respect others in any way they can, and being open-minded and understanding will make you more approachable and likable to those around you.
People love being understood and seen, so if you can apply this to all of your relationships, you’re gonna start seeing people wanting to be closer to you (a lot more often).
Becoming outgoing and likable is definitely a skill and not something you’re born with.
And if this is something you want to practice, then definitely try some of these habits yourself!
Chasing Foxes was started in 2016 as a way for Grace and her husband, Silas, to start traveling. However, they started to realize that they had a passion for improving themselves, and wanted to help others level up their lives as well. So whether it's with cooking, travel, or staying healthy, they want to help you better your life bit by bit, as they do the same.
